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lmost every organization has a corporate bully, but individuals, especially the most accomplished and successful, are increasingly being mistreated by their superiors and peers in the workplace. According to the research we at SingleEdition uncovered, bullies tend to be fueled by envy and resentment, which is typically brought out by high performing, well-liked employees who possess strong values and integrity.

Jeffrey D Neumeyer
(208) 388-4177
1111 W Jefferson St Ste 510
Boise, ID
Specialties
Business, Corporate, Employment, Litigation
State Licensing
Washington

William John Murphy Jr.
(208) 772-4400
8884 N. Government Way, Ste. D
Hayden, ID
Specialties
Social Security, Workers Compensation, Wrongful Termination, Medical Malpractice, State, Local And Municipal Law, Wrongful Death, Employment, Slip and Fall Accident, Sexual Harassment, Wills, Personal Injury
Education
University of Washington
Gonzaga University
State Licensing
Idaho

Kelly Alfred Cameron
(208) 343-3434
Ste 400, 251 E Front St
Boise, ID
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Litigation, Employment, Intellectual Property
State Licensing
Maryland

Julie Sobotta Kane
(208) 843-7355
Po Box 305
Lapwai, ID
Specialties
Native Peoples Law, Employment
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Washington

Denton P. Andrews
(208) 743-8200
111 Main St Ste 177
Lewiston, ID
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Bankruptcy, Debt Collection, Business, Criminal Defense, Employment, Workers Compensation, Estate Planning, Personal Injury, Litigation
State Licensing
Washington

William Breck Seiniger Jr
(208) 345-1000
942 W Myrtle St
Boise, ID
Specialties
Personal Injury, Workers Compensation, Employment
Education
University of Idaho College of Law
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DC, Idaho, Oregon, Washington

Guy Richard Knudsen
(208) 882-0209
1076 Wallen Rd
Moscow, ID
Specialties
Employment
Education
Univ Of New Hampshire,William Howard Taft Univ
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California

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(208) 433-9121
960 Broadway Ave Ste 250
Boise, ID
Specialties
Employment, Intellectual Property, Litigation
Education
Univ of San Diego SOL,Univ of California Davis
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California

Nicole C Snyder
(208) 342-5000
101 S Capitol Blvd Ste 1400
Boise, ID
Specialties
Business, Employment, General Practice, Real Estate
State Licensing
Washington

Cynthia L Miller
(208) 882-5896
127 S Washington St Ste 1
Moscow, ID
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Business, Employment, Estate Planning, Administrative Law
State Licensing
Washington

Are You a Victim of Singlism at Work?

At my last position in Corporate America, I was on the receiving end of a bully executive who was well entrenched with our C.E.O. This duplicitous "mean girl," ironically a movie she always cited, victimized many with her vicious rumor-spreading, mockery and verbal intimidation. With me, her point of attack was almost always aimed at my solo status. A salary increase was denied due to my "stylish wardrobe" which she felt was lavishly excessive, so too was an office of my own and several bonus hikes which my married peers with lesser degrees and profit margins all received.

Bella Depaulo, author of Singled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored and Still Live Happily Ever After, sees individuals who are targets of discrimination as victims of "singlism." Almost every organization has a corporate bully, but individuals, especially the most accomplished and successful, are increasingly being mistreated by their superiors and peers in the workplace. According to the research we at SingleEdition uncovered, bullies tend to be fueled by envy and resentment, which is typically brought out by high performing, well-liked employees who possess strong values and integrity.

So what can those who are being bullied do?

1. Realize it is not your fault: Like most bullies, mine was ridiculing me to destroy my self confidence and to make other employees disrespect me. For a long time I convinced myself that I was being too sensitive. Once I recognized the behavior for what it was, I was able to relinquish all self-blame and stopped questioning my professional conduct (and wardrobe.)

2. Confide in trusted co-worker(s): Keeping quiet about a bully's behavior only makes it worse. After confiding in a few trusted co-workers, it became evident that I was not this mean girl's sole victim. Turned out she was antagonizing many of the unmarried high-achieving women in the office. While we never pursued a formal complaint, we had enough evidence as a collective group to pursue legal redress.

3. Make Sure to Keep a Record: Lucky for me, a friend of mine who is an attorney instructed me to keep detailed notes. I logged everything in an electronic file at work and backed it up on my home computer, including a list of individuals who were witness to those events.

4. Don't retaliate: Sure, there were moments when I wanted to tell her she resembled a troll (you heard it here first) and days where I considered sending a nasty gift to her attention to the office. Despite the strong urge, I refrained from striking back. Walking away with grace and style left my bully more defeated every time.

5. File a formal complaint: In most cases, the only way to stop workplace bullying is through a formal complaint. Wait until you have gathered enough evidence to show that you are being bullied before you make a complaint to your supervisor, boss or human resources person. This will prevent the bully claiming that there has been a misunderstanding. Make your complaint in writing and keep a copy for yourself. Include all the records and other evidence that you have been collecting along with the names of any witnesses.

As for me, this June marks the one year anniversary since I resigned from my role at that company. Today I know for certain that I am living happily ever after and being compensated accordingly, which I know I cannot say about the former, supposedly happily married bully I left behind.

 

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